It is reported that about 70% of people will leave their children to their parents to raise because they are so busy with their work and have no time to take care of their children, that is, grandparents take the responsibility to raise grandchildren. This phenomenon has caused lots of disputes because some people think children living with grandparents will develop egotism. In my opinion, leaving children to their grandparents has more disadvantages than advantages. Reasons are listed below.

據(jù)調(diào)查，大約有70%的人會(huì)把他們的孩子送給孩子的祖父母，因?yàn)樗麄兲α耍荒苷疹櫤⒆印Ｒ饧矗娓改赋袚?dān)起撫養(yǎng)孫子們的責(zé)任。這種現(xiàn)象引來(lái)了很多爭(zhēng)議。一些人認(rèn)為與祖父母呆一起的孩子們往往會(huì)養(yǎng)成以自我為中心的壞習(xí)慣。在我看來(lái)，把孩子們送給祖父母撫養(yǎng)確實(shí)弊大于利。原因如下：

Firstly, grandparents tend to spoil children. Grandparents will satisfy all the requirements of their grandchildren because they are too love their grandchildren to turn their grandchildren down. So children will get whatever they want and if not, they would be bad tempered.

首先，祖父母會(huì)把小孩兒寵壞。祖父母總是會(huì)滿足他們的孫子們的所有要求，因?yàn)樗麄兲蹛蹖O兒們所以不忍心拒絕孫兒們的要求。因此，孫子們總是能得到他們想要的東西，如果得不到的話，他們會(huì)脾氣暴躁。

Secondly, staying with grandparents, children will easily develop egotism. As grandparents would do everything around their grandchildren’s need, gradually, those children will believe that no people would against their wills and abide by their words and ask others to do what they want and don’t think about other people’s feelings.

其次，與祖父母呆一起的孩子們往往很容易變得自我為中心。祖父母總會(huì)以孫兒們的需求為中心，漸漸地，孩子們會(huì)想當(dāng)然地以為沒有人會(huì)違背自己的意愿，而是會(huì)聽從自己。因此，他們會(huì)讓別人做他們想做的事情，并不考慮其他人的感受。

In conclusion, it isn’t good for our children to stay with their grandparents for grandparents will spoil children which make children bad tempered. Besides, it may be inevitable for children to develop egotism by staying with their grandparents. For the long run, parents should raise their children themselves and teach them in a good way.

總之，讓小孩兒跟祖父母呆一起并不好。祖父母的溺愛會(huì)讓他們的脾氣變得很不好。另外，小孩兒也會(huì)變得自我為中心。為了長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)考慮，父母應(yīng)該自己照顧并好好教育自己的小孩兒。

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